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A streak can count days. It cannot tell you what they meant.

A streak gives you a clean answer to a narrow question: did you do it again? That answer can encourage you. It cannot tell you whether you were present, whether the habit still helps, or whether today's exception was a wise choice.

Keep the count if it serves you, but occasionally read beyond it. A missed day spent caring for someone may mean something different from a missed day you barely noticed. Your record can remain accurate without becoming the final judge of the day.

What important part of this habit does its streak leave out?

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