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The smallest useful plan leaves room for a real person.

A plan can be logically sound and still have no room for the person following it. It assumes an even mood, uninterrupted time, and the ability to switch tasks without carrying anything from the last one. Then reality arrives and gets called poor execution.

Put a little uncertainty into the design. Leave time between demanding things. Decide what can move when someone needs you. You do not need to predict every disruption. You need a plan that can bend without making the whole day feel broken.

Where does your plan assume you will behave more like a machine than a person?

November 11, 2026

Rest does not need a performance review.

We often defend rest by listing what it will help us produce afterward. The argument may persuade a demanding workplace or a demanding part of ourselves.

November 10, 2026

The life you postpone is still using up days.

Postponement can make life feel as though it is waiting somewhere untouched.

November 9, 2026

You can make a better choice without becoming a better person first.

It is tempting to make a different life depend on becoming a different kind of person. Once you are confident, disciplined, or organized, you will act.

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Todd InkOct 23, 202613 min read

Natural Law and Happiness: Remove Before You Add

Pleasure, purchases and more apps keep promising happiness. Natural law points the other way: live closer to how you were made, remove what fights it, and review your day in one honest minute.

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Todd InkOct 14, 20268 min read

Your Good Habits Might Be Hiding Your Biggest Problem

Good habits can become a way to avoid important work. Identify the action you keep postponing and build routines that move your goals forward.

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