# The Power of Neuroplasticity by Shad Helmstetter: Rewiring Self-Talk

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> Author: Chuck — iCharles, https://icharles.com
> Published: 2015-04-04 · Updated: 2026-07-07

## Why I picked this up

Shad Helmstetter is my favorite author, full stop. I already reviewed his earlier book, *What to Say When You Talk to Yourself*, and it changed how I hear conversations — not just my own self-talk, but other people's. Someone tells me they "can't" run a marathon, and I used to just nod along. Now I hear it for what it is: a limiting belief, not a fact. I just read about a 104-year-old running his 20th marathon. Nothing wrong with him physically. The people who say "I can't" usually just haven't rewired the belief.

*The Power of Neuroplasticity* came out in 2013 and is essentially the updated, science-backed version of that earlier book, which was originally written back in 1981. Back then Helmstetter was ahead of the science. Now we have brain scans showing people literally changing their brain waves based on what they believe about themselves. The book breaks into 20 short chapters, and a few of them changed how I run my own head.

## Neuroplasticity is just wiring, and you control the wiring

The core idea is simple: your brain can rewire itself based on what you feed it. Derek Jeter didn't think his way through a swing — it was wired in through repetition until it became instinct. Michael Jordan didn't calculate his moves on the court; he'd built the vision into his brain until it just happened. Neuroplasticity is the mechanism behind that. Whatever you repeat, positive or negative, gets wired in. So I've been deliberately feeding mine: I say "I am wealthy and financially independent," "I have multiple passive income streams," out loud, daily, before it's even fully true. I used to believe money was attainable but only through an insane, unsustainable amount of grinding. That was a belief, not a fact — and it's the one I've been rewiring.

## The Power of Detail — why diets and quick fixes don't work

This is the chapter that hit hardest. Helmstetter's point: you can lose the weight, hit the goal, whatever — but if your mind hasn't changed, it snaps back. It's like a thermostat. You drop the weight and your brain says, "great, now I can have the chocolate pie" or "I can skip the gym for a week." Going to the gym once every five days does nothing. That's like reading once a week, or trying to make money once a week — it's not a program, it's not going to move anything. Real change is a lifestyle, not an event. It's not about working harder either — it's working smarter. You can grind on the wrong thing for years and get nowhere; manage your time and energy better and the results follow.

## Catch the voice, don't just fight it

The part that stuck with me most: that inner voice runs all day, every day, and it doesn't distinguish positive from negative — it just imprints, mostly between ages zero and six. That's why one person walks around believing they can have 10-12 close relationships and another believes they're capped at two. Same brain mechanism, different imprint.

So the practice is simple. I listen to recordings every morning and every night targeting specific things I want to change — fear of rejection was one of mine. Instead of saying "I have a fear of rejection," I now catch myself and say "I had a fear of rejection." Past tense. Small shift, real difference. Same with the other common ones: "I'm not good enough," "I don't deserve it," "I'm too tired," "it's too early." When you catch one, you don't argue with it — you just thank yourself for noticing it, set it aside, and take the action anyway. Go to the gym. Eat the salad. Whatever it was blocking.

One more detail worth knowing: phrase it as what you want, not what you're avoiding. Don't say "I'm not fat" or "I'm debt-free" — your brain locks onto "fat" and "debt." Say "I'm in shape and healthy," "I'm financially free." State the destination, not the thing you're running from.

## Who should read this

Anyone running a business, training for something hard, or trying to break a belief that's quietly capping their life. This is required reading for everyone at my company — right alongside *What to Say When You Talk to Yourself*. If Helmstetter puts out another book tomorrow, I'm buying it the day it drops. Next up: *The Talent Code*, which ties directly into this through myelin and how skill actually gets wired into the brain — worth watching that review too.